Prepare yourself.

Whether you’re travelling in on a 30 minute train or a 10 hour plane, there are a few things you need to know so you can have the best time possible.

So let’s answer your most important questions!

How do I get there?

By Train

From London (Euston): Take a direct London Northwestern Railway service from London Northwestern Railway departing London Euston towards Milton Keynes or Birmingham. Trains run regularly and take around 30–35 minutes to Berkhamsted Station.

From Berkhamsted Station to Ashridge House: The venue is approximately a 10 minute drive or taxi ride from the station. Local taxis are usually available outside the station, or can be pre-booked in advance.

If you need help booking a taxi, the lovely Ellie has volunteered to coordinate your travel. Please contact Ellie via iMessage or WhatsApp and she can arrange everything: +44 07791 707394

By Car

From London: Take the M1 north to Junction 8, then follow the A414 towards Hemel Hempstead and signs for Berkhamsted/Ashridge.

From Heathrow Airport: Take the M25 clockwise to Junction 21, then the M1 north to Junction 8, following the A414 towards Berkhamsted.

Ashridge House is located within the Ashridge Estate, just outside Berkhamsted. Sat navs generally find the venue easily using the postcode HP4 1NS. Free parking is available on site.

Ashridge House, Berkhamsted HP4 1NS

Where do I sleep?

Ashridge House

Our venue can accommodate every single guest on site, so you can enjoy the fun without worrying about how you’re getting home at 2 am.

You have the option to stay for both Friday and Saturday or just Saturday night. Check in is at 3 pm, and check out is 11 am.

If you need it, here’s an explanation of room types.

Alternative Options

We’d love for you to stay with us! But if you don’t want to stay on site, here are a few good options. There are also plenty more options in Berkhamsted, which is just a 10 minute drive away.

Pendley Manor Hotel (3.2 miles) | £££

The Greyhound Inn (1.5 miles) | ££

Premier Inn Hemel Hempstead West (5.5 miles) | £

Will I be fed enough?

If you’re like Kelly, you need to know when and how much food will be available. This part of the guide is for you (and her, when she forgets).

At every point, gluten free and vegan options will be available.

Saturday

Morning | Head into Berkhamsted for breakfast, or grab a bite at the bakehouse, Ashridge House’s on-site cafe.

2:30 | Post-ceremony canapés. Think, like, five bites of (really yummy) food to give you a taste of what’s to come.

5:00 | A three-course meal. You will be full after.

10:00 | Pizza to keep you going until 2 am.

Sunday

8:00-10:00 | If you’re staying on site, join us for a full breakfast in the same hall where we had our dinner the night before.

12:00-4:00 | Julian and Kelly will post up at a pub in Berkhamsted, exact location to be confirmed and updated here closer to the time. You’ll be able to order food and beverages to your heart’s desire.

What’s the dress code?

Gentlemen

Suits in linen or warm-weather fabrics

Colour encouraged

Ties optional

Ladies

Long dresses

Colours and light, flowy fabrics encouraged

Shoes are up to you: The ceremony and dancing will be indoors, with cocktail reception outdoors and an option to walk the grounds.

Venue FAQs

Most of your questions can be answered on the Ashridge House website.

Where do I go in?

The most obvious entrance is the South Entrance.

If you need it, here’s the What 3 Words: ///fitter.suspend.ambushes

I really like to exercise my body before I exercise my liver. What can I do?

There’s a lovely gym and pool on site.

Seriously, I’m sooooo hungry.

The bakehouse is your best option. If it’s late, you might need to head to Berkhamsted for a quick bite.

I love nature.

Good for you! There are a few amazing walks with Ashridge House at the centre. The one you’re most likely to enjoy is the Foresters Walk, which takes 1-1.5 hours.

Ashridge House Map